Your Haters Can`t Achieve Your Level of Success

Your Haters Can`t Achieve Your Level of Success

Self-Improvement
Someone very wise once said, “Haters want to be you, they can't, so here comes the hate. They are haters, that's what they do.”  This is exactly what people wish they could be. They wish they were YOU, but the problem is that we were all created uniquely. Our creator knew exactly what he was doing when he created each one of us.  We shouldn't spend or wasting our time and energy worrying about other people`s opinions of us unless it`s constructive and aimed at building our character. Never Focus On Your Hater`s Opinion Of You When I was planning to publish the first book I made a mistake of telling a friend that I resigned from my job to pursue my dream. My friend said that was the most…
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Persistence Matters More Than Giving Up

Persistence Matters More Than Giving Up

Self-Improvement
PERSISTENCE IS PROOF THAT YOU BELIEVING IN YOUR DREAM Persistence is defined as the quality that permits somebody to keep achieving something or attempting to achieve something despite the fact that it is upsetting to or opposed by other individuals. I once read somewhere that fear can compete with persistence. When you refuse to give up fear eventually lets you go. You end up achieving much greater things in life. “A little more persistence, a little more effort, and what seemed hopeless failure may turn to glorious success” said Elbert Hubbard; and he was right. No Success is possible without persistence. Those who fail in life are those fail to keep on keeping on. They lose courage at the brink of success. When someone succeeds in the very same thing they…
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Compliment – Let it Go – Focus on You

Compliment – Let it Go – Focus on You

Self-Improvement
We spent most our lives envying other people`s accomplishments. We gossip about what someone has done, what they bought and how much it cost them. We analyse their backgrounds and what it took for them to reach the position they are in. We scrutinise our own lives and spend more time comparing ourselves to people. While there is nothing wrong with admiring someone else`s success, it is foolish to compare ourselves with our successful friends. We should get inspired by them and learn from them. It is important to accept and love yourself as you are. If you respect yourself, people will respect you. Embrace your shortcomings and make them your strength. My point is… It was when you accept yourself as you are, instead of competing or comparing yourself…
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Do What You Love and Love What You Do

Do What You Love and Love What You Do

Self-Improvement
"Most of us often spend our lives doing what we were trained to do. Some do what they were asked to do. And most of us do what others need us to do. All the while we wonder why the feeling of fulfilment eludes us” _Bishop TD Jakes_ We sometimes tend to focus more on the challenges that life presents to us and then we forget or lose ourselves in the process. How often do you see your peers applying for jobs they don`t like just to escape the unemployment line? Settling for less compensation than they deserve, because they pursued employment in the field of work that undermines the talents and skills they possess. Then after some years they begin to realize that there are no opportunities for growth. Most of us have been there. Stuck…
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Change Your Focus – Change Your Life

Change Your Focus – Change Your Life

Self-Improvement
“Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it” _GregAnderson_ I have learned that one of the things that stop people from achieving great success is their focus. It is important that you start realizing this true and immediately start changing your focus. Whenever we face problems, we spend more time in worry and stress. We end up meditating on the problem so much that we forget to work on a solution. Author of Secrets of a Millionaire Mind, T. HarveEker says in his book said, “Poor people will do almost anything to avoid problems. They see a challenge and they run...the secret to success is not to try to avoid or get rid of or shrink from your problems;…
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